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Some people are here on earth but are not life conscious. This post is for the life conscious beings. Permit me to further divide this group of beings into two, the ones that have found their purpose and those that are vigorously searching for theirs. With this, we can say a life conscious being is one who knows there has to be a...

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Hey beautiful people, how's your weekend going? I'm just writing to let you know I didn't forget y'all but my day is very very very busy. Would have a new post by tomorrow. Thanks for stopping by. Love you guys. Hey beautiful people, how's your weekend going? I'm just writing to let you know I didn't forget y'all but my day is very...

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Most people run away from using beans flour for MoinMoin but when good quality beans is out of reach, you use the alternative. I've used beans flour for years now and I have no complaints. I usually bake mine but for this recipe, I used the boiling method and sometimes what I miss is the taste that comes with using the traditional leaf...

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My daughter came back from school grumpy and refused to eat her lunch. I got worried and after several attempts to find out what was wrong, she finally opened up when I threatened her. The shocking news she gave me left me speechless. The chills are still running down my spine as I type this. Mum: What is wrong darling? Did anything go...

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I'm supposed to write the part 1 to the new story series on the blog but I felt the need to pray for anyone reading this now. Life is getting tougher by the minute and we need to pray for each other. Just say amen, believe that they will be answered and share so others don't miss out. Dear God, I'm praying on...

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With all the sad events in the world, it just seems like friendships these days are also under fire and that makes me question if the people you call friends are really your friends. On the new Pep Talk With Dedun Series, we are discussing Friendships. I mean everyone can relate with this topic and thankfully it's so broad that it is definitely...

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Since we just concluded Relationship series on the blog, it will make sense to talk about heart break. I know we've all been there. Whether you did the break up or you were broken up with, you must know what it feels like to be heart broken. I'm actually wondering how one can get over a heartbreak. I've had my fair share and...

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Life is a journey! Everyone knows that. Each person’s journey is also different- even with the best efforts of trying to streamline and standardize life to make it more predictable! Time was when I had everything in life well sorted out predictably, but not anymore! I could plan events ahead and watch them unfold. Almost all things we do have another person’s input...

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Hey guys, I would like to welcome my new readers and subscribers. I see you, thank you. This week I posted a survey, please fill it here if you haven't, thanks to everyone that has filled the survey. So far so good, the feedbacks have been amazing and I noticed 90% of the respondents had the same blog improvement suggestion which was to have...

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Lol yes women. I mean they say "men will always cheat" so there's no point trying to analyze that but I pray I don't experience that from my husband o if not... Don't let me open my behind here. So, does kissing someone else count as cheating? If yes, then I'm guilty and eligible to write this post, after all the blog is based...

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Since the first time I cooked this sauce, I've not looked back. In fact I'd rather eat my beans mashed than the usual stewed beans. This sauce just draws you in, from the first spoon to the last. Now add dodo to the mix, ooh la la. Let me save you the torture and get right to it. It helps to use the...

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Since the confrontation last week, Sunday and I have barely talked. The only time he called was to tell me he was coming to collect his glasses he left at my place. It was awkward. We both felt like strangers and he didn't even stay for up to five minutes. Now I'm just here acting miserable and asking if this is the end...

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If you know me, it shouldn't be news that I know how to pamper myself. Yes, pampering yourself is a big part of loving yourself abi will you pamper someone you don't love? I don't think so. My Ig page has "Choose your happiness first" as it's caption. This just means that with all the turns and turbulence of life, your happiness should...

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Thanks to everyone that has filled the survey so far. God bless. One of the suggestions was to have an easy interface for people to contact me. To take it up a notch, I decided I can't do it alone and I'm building my support team. Currently I have  A Life coach,  A Prayer & Fasting Friend,  A Marriage & Relationship advisor and ...

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Hey guys please can you spare 2 minutes of your time to fill this survey for me? Thank you. It's also on the side bar of the blog. https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/HHZ2MFT ...

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Wait o I am not telling you to break up with your partner because of this list ehn ehn before you say Dedun wants to break relationships. To be honest, this list is for me sef. If you want to borrow it, feel free lol. At the end of the day, if it is not right, it really isn't but you can't say it...

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This post is mainly for medical students/soon to be doctors. Really sorry that I've not helped the non medical students with academic stuff related to post Uni plans. I will try my best to have guests who have graduated from different fields to help out. This post is a semi guest post because most of the info here were gotten from different people....

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Someone asked me if everything was okay with me. I asked why and she said because I just suddenly focused on blogging and I've been writing about God a lot. The only response I could give her was "God happened". The question just reaffirmed my thoughts that I was away for too long. This post is titled Journey BACK to God and I...

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 Hello everyone. This post is a week late, sorry about that. Better late than never right? Finally sharing a requested recipe. Efo Riro is quite versatile, you can use any vegetable and meat you prefer. For this recipe I used Chicken, Beef, Ponmo and Gizzard. Also, I've been told you can change the pepper ratio and omit the tomatoes completely,  I've not tried...

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So many times we are angry at God for things turning opposite of what we prayed for. As students, it could be for exams, financial miracles or relationships too. From my experience I think the one time I was really mad at God was for a relationship I thought would last. Sometimes when I remember that time I just shake my head and...

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